Previous post on this is here…
https://uncoffined.com/2025/08/21/when-you-meet-the-wrong-girl-part-three/
While reading one of Danielle’s posts (below), I realised I had relied on a narcissist to define my sense of self worth. (that’s not a good thing!)
https://thedailyaddictcom.wordpress.com/2025/08/22/why-would-i-do-that-8-22/
It’s blindingly obvious to me now, but once you see something, you cant un see it.
The first image is 100% accurate for her, and most of the second one
I was blinded by emotions and only wanted to see what she could be, not what she is/was.
I’m just feeling a bit dumb now, but at least it’s a compliment been targeted by a narcissist, because they look for people that aren’t like them, as below.
It’s probably only a matter of time (years?) before she turns up again, out of the blue.
Rather than ignore / panic / hide, like I have in the past, I need to clearly explain that her attentions aren’t welcome in a polite , firm, and clear way.
It’s all rather weird, because we never actually went on a date, held hands or anything much really.
P.S. It’s done me a world of good writing all this down.
Uncoffined 
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